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Find the Best Traditional Wedding Anniversary Gifts by Year

For the ones who have everything, we’ve curated a ceremonial gift list to match each year of marriage (well, through 60!).

By Emma Sutton-Williams
anniversary gifts and ideas for every year

When your loved ones are celebrating a wedding anniversary milestone, you want to show how much you care with a special gift. But following the traditional anniversary gift guidance, it can be difficult to find something that symbolizes their love and also fits the traditional theme for that year. That's where our thoughtfully curated gift guide comes in. What we give to them does not need to be expensive, but it should be meaningful. For instance, paper represents their first year, and although you may be tempted to send a card, consider a romantic cookbook so they can create wonderful dishes together for some quality time or perhaps a handwritten customized song just for them.

The following years, such as wood for five years, wax for 16, and coral for 35, can be challenging, but we can help. Consider an etched cutting board from Oprah's Favorite Things that's functional as well as beautiful, a wax seal stamp to mail love letters to each other, or perhaps a coral letter opener to signify their love.

When you hit the golden years, it can be hard to swallow the cost of rubies and diamonds, which is why we've selected some cheeky gifts that symbolize these rare gems, as well as some that are attainable after 60 years of marriage. After all, your loved ones deserve the best you can offer. Don't worry; we've made it easy and have done the research for you so you can add-to-cart and write the card.

Best 1st Anniversary Gift

Maria Zizka The Newlywed Table: Paper

The Newlywed Table: Paper
Best 1st Anniversary Gift

Maria Zizka The Newlywed Table: Paper

$30 at Anthropologie
Credit: Maria Zizka

The first year is hard to buy for, especially when paper is your level of achievement. Besides a lovely note, this cookbook will bring hours of joy to their relationship as they learn to cook new recipes together and host friends and family at the dinner table.

Best 2nd Anniversary Gift

House No. 23 Sherpa Fleece Throw Blanket: Cotton

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Sherpa Fleece Throw Blanket: Cotton
Best 2nd Anniversary Gift

House No. 23 Sherpa Fleece Throw Blanket: Cotton

Credit: House No. 23

Snuggle into a breathable cotton throw, a gift they can share on the couch to watch favorite movies or use as a decorative piece to finish off their home. Either way, you're winning with cotton as the second-anniversary gift of choice (one of Oprah's Favorite Things!).

Best 3rd Anniversary Gift

Mark & Graham Graham Overnighter: Leather

Graham Overnighter: Leather
Best 3rd Anniversary Gift

Mark & Graham Graham Overnighter: Leather

Credit: Mark & Graham

Crafted with genuine leather (hint hint, year number three!), this weekend bag is ideal for getaway trips and romantic holidays. Maybe you present this as a gift with spontaneous travel plans. After all, your spouse or friends will love a little impulsive adventure to fan the flames.

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Best 4th Anniversary Gift

Pro Flowers Flower Bouquet: Fruit or Flowers

Flower Bouquet: Fruit or Flowers
Best 4th Anniversary Gift

Pro Flowers Flower Bouquet: Fruit or Flowers

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Year four is all about flowers and candy. Give them a bouquet to remind them of their special wedding day, or choose their favorite flower with some sweet bites as bonus points.

Best 5th Anniversary Gift

Totally Bamboo Family Tree Bamboo Carving Board: Wood

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Family Tree Bamboo Carving Board: Wood
Best 5th Anniversary Gift

Totally Bamboo Family Tree Bamboo Carving Board: Wood

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Not only does Oprah love this cutting board, but your friends will too. It's beautiful and functional; the juices drain away from the meat through this intricate carving, allowing the perfect canvas for meat lovers to display their carefully crafted meals.

Best 6th Anniversary Gift

Le Creuset Braiser: Candy or Iron

Braiser: Candy or Iron
Best 6th Anniversary Gift

Le Creuset Braiser: Candy or Iron

Credit: Le Creuset

This iron pan is probably still sitting in their wedding registry from six years ago, but now is the moment to click "add to cart." They have wanted this item for a long time, and they deserve it to celebrate their six years together. It has a lifetime warranty and will never go out of style.

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Best 7th Anniversary Gift

Ember Ember Mug 2: Wool or Copper

Ember Mug 2: Wool or Copper
Best 7th Anniversary Gift

Ember Ember Mug 2: Wool or Copper

Credit: Ember

With a nod to copper (hello, seven), add this temperature-controlled mug to their all-day routine of drinking coffee or tea—one of our favorite and practical go-to gifts.

Best 8th Anniversary Gift

CB2 Hinge Cast Aluminum Vase: Bronze

Hinge Cast Aluminum Vase: Bronze
Best 8th Anniversary Gift

CB2 Hinge Cast Aluminum Vase: Bronze

Credit: CB2

Add to their artful collection with this statuesque bronze vase. It can be used for flowers or as a standalone to show off their impeccable style. A reminder of their love for the past eight years and a symbol of the strength that is to come.

Best 9th Anniversary Gift

Pottery Barn Artisan Handcrafted Ceramic Footed Bowl: Pottery

Artisan Handcrafted Ceramic Footed Bowl: Pottery
Best 9th Anniversary Gift

Pottery Barn Artisan Handcrafted Ceramic Footed Bowl: Pottery

Credit: Pottery Barn

This gorgeous pedestal-like bowl is perfect to put on display and is essential for a modern, clean aesthetic. It has smooth simplistic lines that make your space more inviting and emulates warmth so you can host in artfully curated spaces.

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Best 10th Anniversary Gift

Uncommon Goods Countertop Citrus Juicer: Tin or Aluminum

Countertop Citrus Juicer: Tin or Aluminum
Best 10th Anniversary Gift

Uncommon Goods Countertop Citrus Juicer: Tin or Aluminum

Credit: Uncommon Goods

For the retro lover, this juicer was made from aluminum recycled cans and makes any kitchen look instantly cool for a 10th wedding anniversary. It's great for the health-conscious, the cocktail lover, or both.

Best 11th Anniversary Gift

Miyabi Kaizen 6" Chef's Knife: Steel

6" Chef's Knife: Steel
Best 11th Anniversary Gift

Miyabi Kaizen 6" Chef's Knife: Steel

Now 17% Off
Credit: Miyabi Kaizen

This decorative Japanese steel blade is an exemplary choice for the couples who cook and are hitting their 11th-year mark—steel. Handcrafted and easy to hold, it'll last for years to come, allowing them to create masterful meals with precision.

Best 12th Anniversary Gift

Asutra Eye Pillow for Sleep: Silk

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Eye Pillow for Sleep: Silk
Best 12th Anniversary Gift

Asutra Eye Pillow for Sleep: Silk

Credit: Asutra

After 12 years, sometimes all they want is the perfect night's sleep; perhaps that's why silk is the traditional gift for this landmark. This Asutra silk sleeping mask is weighted and filled with lavender for a double dose of relaxation. Venus Williams is a co-owner of the company, and when Oprah gives her stamp of approval, you know it's good. It has a removable gel insert that can be stored in the freezer for de-puffing eyes. Why not make a full on luxury gift and combine with some silk pajamas?

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Best 13th Anniversary Gift

Anthropologie Bombay Tumbler Glasses, Set of 4: Lace

Bombay Tumbler Glasses, Set of 4: Lace
Best 13th Anniversary Gift

Anthropologie Bombay Tumbler Glasses, Set of 4: Lace

Credit: Anthropologie

Not everyone loves a touch of lace, but they wouldn't mind a nod to the traditional 13th wedding anniversary with lace-patterned water glasses. By now, they've likely broken the set they received on their wedding day and welcome this hand-blown collection—sure to go with everything.

Best 14th Anniversary Gift

The Citizenry Vida Ceramic Candleholders: Ivory

Vida Ceramic Candleholders: Ivory
Best 14th Anniversary Gift

The Citizenry Vida Ceramic Candleholders: Ivory

Credit: The Citizenry

Ivory represents luck and protection, which is why these ivory-colored ceramic candlesticks would be an ideal way to cherish their 14 years. Inspired by the landscapes of Jalisco, Mexico, these works of art allow their love to burn on.

Best 15th Anniversary Gift

Viski Meridian Tumblers: Crystal

Meridian Tumblers: Crystal
Best 15th Anniversary Gift

Viski Meridian Tumblers: Crystal

Credit: Viski

Bring them sophistication and class with crystal gold-rimmed tumblers. They bring elegance to every sip, whether it be bourbon or ice water.

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Best 16th Anniversary Gift

Custom Knot Wedding Monogram Seal: Wax

Custom Knot Wedding Monogram Seal: Wax
Best 16th Anniversary Gift

Custom Knot Wedding Monogram Seal: Wax

Credit: Stamprints

Wax represents a candle that burns through the night, and if a candle feels too obvious, send them a personalized stamp print with their initials. As a romantic gesture, add stationery so they can write love letters to one another.

Best 17th Anniversary Gift

Hommpa LED Record Player Stand and Storage: Furniture

LED Record Player Stand and Storage: Furniture
Best 17th Anniversary Gift

Hommpa LED Record Player Stand and Storage: Furniture

Now 28% Off
Credit: Hommpa

Give them a touch of old-school class to place their record player on and dance the night away. They can romance in revelry with a little Sidney Bechet and a bourbon (or mocktail) for the ultimate backdrop.

Best 18th Anniversary Gift

Uncommon Goods The Kissing Mugs: Porcelain

The Kissing Mugs: Porcelain
Best 18th Anniversary Gift

Uncommon Goods The Kissing Mugs: Porcelain

Credit: Uncommon Goods

The ultimate pairing of porcelain and romance for the couple that loves to share tea for two (and a sense of humor). After all, they were made for each other.

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Best 19th Anniversary Gift

Pottery Barn Horse & Marble Bookends: Bronze

Horse & Marble Bookends: Bronze
Best 19th Anniversary Gift

Pottery Barn Horse & Marble Bookends: Bronze

Credit: Pottery Barn

Perfect for bookworms, bronze bookends symbolizing their love for each other. Exuding equestrian style, these sculpted pieces will always look elegant in any home.

Best 20th Anniversary Gift

Wedgwood Wedgwood x Sheila Bridges 4 Piece Place Setting: China

Wedgwood x Sheila Bridges 4 Piece Place Setting: China
Best 20th Anniversary Gift

Wedgwood Wedgwood x Sheila Bridges 4 Piece Place Setting: China

Credit: Wedgwood

A unique twist and beautifully curated china collection, Sheila Bridges, in collaboration with Wedgwood, draws inspiration from traditional French toile, reimagined to celebrate a complex history and rich culture. A fun addition to any home.

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Emma Sutton-Williams
Contributing Writer

Emma is a New York-based writer focused on beauty, lifestyle, and fashion. When she's not scribbling novel ideas (pun intended), she's off performing on Broadway and recording movie scores as a Juilliard-trained violinist. Her bylines have appeared in Rolling Stone, Parents, InStyle, The Everygirl, and well, you get the idea.

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